Dear Waferinos-
I guess it's time for a new thread. Unfortunately, I have no great insights to offer at this point; my mind is as empty as that of Rom Mittney's. At least he has his haircut to fall back on.
It is thus difficult to counsel you in any way, assuming you would want or need my input. All I can suggest is that you consult your post-it every morning; it's a good way to start your day. You might also want to read Dave Egger's book
The Circle, for a depressing/astute portrait of America today.
Wafer on, Wafer on, Voltaire, Rousseau! (Blake)
-mb